When I’m in a room full of women

It feels welcoming

Last week I went to the Women Leading Change conference. As I walked around in a room full of women I was impressed by the kindness, the generosity, and the staggering number of crazy talented women suffering from imposter syndrome. (We need to get over that.) I have watched the struggle for equality firsthand. My grandmother was born without the right to vote. She wasn’t allowed to open a bank account at the bank she worked at, even though she had a degree, was a registered dietician, and ran the bank’s cafeteria. Rather than have my grandfather open an account for her, she went to a credit union so she could open her own. My mother had degrees from both Brown and RISD and was the president of the Women’s Ad Club of Rhode Island. As an art director, she lived through Mad Men in real life. 

When I was in college in the 80s I got into a discussion about feminism with one of my professors, Elfie Raymond, who had degrees from the Sorbonne and the University of Vienna*. Elfie held up a hand to wave off all the politics of the day, looked me in the eye and said with her slow, euro-accented English. “Sarah, the housewives of Scarsdale have burned their bras to show the world that women are equal. Now it’s up to your generation to prove their sacrifice was worth it. You can’t just SAY you are equal, you need to BE equal.” (Elfie always had an edge of both sarcasm and wit.) Those words stuck with me. Being equal wasn’t enough at the time. You didn’t move up the ladder being as good as the guy next to you. Being better was the only way for women to get ahead. The unwritten rules of commerce did not favor women, and yet the slow steady push for equality moved a lot of rubber tree plants and broke a lot of glass ceilings. 

Today I have an established business (Catalog Design Studios) and a startup focused on online shopping designed for the way women shop. (Stylaquin) This year I’m also running for town council in my small town. I don’t know if I’ll win, but being equal means I can try. Being equal also means being able to fail, get things wrong, and do things over. Being equal means that if I fail, I won’t fail because I’m a woman. I’ll fail because I’m human.

When I’m in a room full of women I can see how far we’ve come, and how far we still need to go. Looking back, I can see each generation making progress. Looking forward I see even more change ahead. My niece, who’s in data analytics, wasn’t getting paid as much as her peers. She wasn’t afraid to go to HR and complain—that’s progress. The real progress though is that when her peers found out about the discrepancy, they went to HR and complained too, now she’s paid the same as they are. Millennials aren’t as comfortable with inequality as prior generations. They speak up and fix it. That’s generational progress! 

 

*Elfie Raymond was also a Post-doctoral Fulbright Exchange Scholar at Columbia University; recipient of research grants from the Ford Foundation, the Hewlett-Mellon Foundation and the National Endowment for the Humanities. Scholar-in-residence at Northwestern University, Graduate Theological Union Seminary at Berkeley, the Institute for Reformation History at the University of Zurich, and Reader at the Folger Shakespeare Library in Washington. She was an extraordinary human. 

Traffic vs Engagement: Which should you focus on?

Which is more important, getting traffic or having engagement?

It’s easy to say both, but it’s really a timing issue. In the beginning, you need traffic, and engagement is more of a signal of how well you’re getting your message out. If you have a small (n) traffic problem, meaning you don’t have much traffic at all, then multiplying the small (n) by any number isn’t going to do much to move the needle. So when you’re just starting out, traffic is more important than engagement.
But, if you increase engagement, you get more sales from your traffic, more repeat visits and Google gives you a higher site rank. So this is also a bit of a chicken and egg problem. Not enough traffic and amazing engagement doesn’t help that much. Not enough engagement and your traffic is wasted and growth is even harder.

All traffic isn’t created equal.

Organic traffic ranks higher than paid traffic, and it’s free (not). You can grow old and die before Google decides to send you organic traffic without running ads. Organic traffic is anything but free once you consider how much time and/or money you spend creating the content that drives organic traffic.

 

Social media traffic may be easier to get, but it’s typically less effective at driving sales. There are those who ROCK social media, and those who just post. Mobile visitors to your website are less likely to buy than desktop visitors. Social media is more mobile-oriented so it tends to bring in more mobile visitors. Social media also skews to a younger audience, which is also a consideration. If you are a natural at social, it can be a driver. If you need to hire someone, it’s more expensive than ads.

Paid traffic and engagement

Once you start paying for ads, you absolutely need to work on engagement. Not having an engaging site is spending money you don’t have to. Engaging sites also bring in significantly more organic traffic, but here’s a little tidbit that doesn’t get as much attention as it should: Google will charge you less for ads than other sites, even if they bid higher, if you rank better than they do. I’m not making that up. Sites with high engagement scores pay less for ads. Google would rather send searchers to sites they’ll engage with than sites they’ll bounce on. Bad search results make Google look bad.

Why Google stopped rewarding traffic alone

Until a few years ago, SEO was mostly about telling Google what your pages were about. Keywords, structure, links. Google ranked sites algorithmically, largely independent of how visitors behaved.

That’s changed. Google’s recent updates lean heavily on user-behavior signals: dwell time, pages per session, return visit rate, scroll depth. These now decide which sites get more traffic. Sites that engage visitors well get rewarded with better positions. Sites that bounce visitors get quietly demoted, not in a single drop but in slow erosion over months.

For established stores, this means the comparison between traffic and engagement is misleading. They aren’t separate dials anymore. Engagement is part of how Google decides whether to send you more traffic at all. Working harder on traffic acquisition while engagement metrics stay flat is like filling a bucket Google has decided has a hole in it.

What stores ahead of this shift have been seeing

One of our customers, HorseWorldEU, lived this. After Google’s algorithm update — the one that put AI answers at the top of the search page — they saw a 700% increase in organic traffic. They didn’t change their product mix, didn’t add new apps, didn’t run new campaigns, didn’t suddenly produce more content. What they had done in the months prior was install Stylaquin and build the kind of on-site engagement Google now rewards: longer sessions, more products viewed per visit, repeat visitors curating boards.

We can’t claim direct causation. The algorithm does many things at once. But the timing aligned, and stores still pumping content into a low-engagement experience are watching their positions erode without an obvious cause.

The four engagement signals to watch

Before you fix engagement, you have to know which signal is weakest. Pull these four numbers from your Shopify analytics or GA4.

Pages per session under 3 means visitors land on a product, don’t see an obvious next thing to look at, and leave. The standard Shopify grid is the usual culprit. It’s fine for shoppers who already know what they want, but it works against shoppers who are exploring. If your store skews visual or fashion-adjacent, this signal is often the easiest to move.

Average session duration under 90 seconds means the same problem in time terms. Visitors arrive but don’t find enough to hold their attention.

Bounce rate over 60% means most visitors leave from the page they landed on. Usually that’s a mismatch between what brought them and what the page delivers. Sometimes a meta description that promised something different. Sometimes a slow page. Sometimes a layout that doesn’t match what the visitor expected.

Return visitor rate under 25% means the visitors you do convert aren’t coming back. This is the hardest signal to move because it requires giving visitors a reason to return that isn’t an email reminder.

Any one of these is a flag. Two or more together is a clear pattern. That’s the case for changing the on-site experience itself, not tuning at the margins.

How to move these signals

Each signal maps to different work. None is fixed by working harder at traffic acquisition.

Pages per session improves when product discovery feels less like clicking through a directory. Stronger related-product recommendations, more compelling collection layouts, alternative browsing experiences. Visual stores benefit most.

Session duration is downstream of pages per session, but adds a layer. Are visitors engaging with each page, or just clicking through? Better photography, clearer styling context, the ability to compare items side by side, these all extend sessions.

Bounce rate is mostly fixed at the entry point. The page that ranks for a query needs to deliver what the searcher expected when they clicked. Sometimes that’s rewriting the meta description. Sometimes it’s making the page faster. Sometimes the page just needs to look more like inspiration and less like a generic grid.

Return visitor rate is the hardest of the four. Email is the traditional answer, but open rates are falling and most stores send too much. The stores that actually move this number give visitors something to come back to that isn’t email. A saved selection. A curated board. An outfit-in-progress. The store becomes a place they return to of their own accord.

Stylaquin’s strongest data shows up here. Returning visitors using the Idea Board convert at 8.13%, versus 3.76% for those who don’t. More than double, on the customers most likely to buy.

What to do this week

If you’re past 5,000 sessions a month with flat conversion, the work isn’t more traffic. It’s whichever of the four engagement signals is weakest, and the lever you pull to fix it.

Pull the four numbers from your analytics today. Pages per session, session duration, bounce rate, returning-visitor rate. The weakest one tells you where to start. If multiple are weak together, that’s the case for changing the experience itself.

If you’re wondering whether any of this would actually move the needle on your specific products, run them through the Mockup Studio at stylaquin-mockupstudio.netlify.app. Five minutes, no install. You see your own catalog in the experience.

Stylaquin vs. Pinterest: The Shopping Showdown

Stylaquin vs. Pinterest: The Shopping Showdown

Why Women Love Pinterest
Pinterest is a treasure trove of inspiration. Whether it’s planning a wedding, decorating a room, or finding fashion ideas, it’s where women curate their dreams and explore new ideas. With the ability to save and organize pins, it’s the ultimate mood board for any project or interest. But Pinterest often leaves you with a “pin now, buy later” dilemma, offering lots of ideas but little action.

Why Women Love Stylaquin
Stylaquin takes things up a notch by turning inspiration into action. Women love Stylaquin because it doesn’t just showcase products in a fun, engaging way—it makes them immediately shoppable. Its Look Book and Idea Board features allow women to explore, browse, and then buy what catches their eye without hopping between multiple sites. Stylaquin combines visual discovery with a smooth, no-fuss shopping experience, bringing Pinterest-like inspiration to life with a purchase-friendly twist.

Animated gif showing a laptop that displays Stylaquin's Look Book Feature

Does Your Site Do This?

It can with Stylaquin! Stylaquin is the easy to add Shopify app that transforms your website. Stylaquin makes shopping faster, more engaging, and more fun. Stylaquin shoppers stay longer, view over 85% more products, come back more often, and buy more when they do. Find us in the Shopify App Store.

Let’s be real: both Stylaquin and Pinterest get that women love to browse, dream, and click their way to the perfect purchase. But here’s the thing—while Pinterest is all about inspiration, Stylaquin is where the magic happens. Pinterest is on a whole other site, while Stylaquin is on YOUR site. Making shoppers leave your site to buy? Big mistake! It’s like inviting them to a party, then telling them to go next door to get the snacks—by the time they get there, they might lose interest. It interrupts the shopping groove, adds extra steps, and erodes trust. Worse, they might never come back! The last thing you want is to make shopping harder. Keep them on your site, keep them engaged, and make it easy for them to click “buy now.” That’s how Stylaquin turns browsers into buyers.

Add a Styling Board and a Wishlist!

The Stylaquin Idea Board keeps customers engaged in two ways: it’s an interactive styling board where shoppers can collect and curate all the things that interest them; and it also acts as a wishlist that shoppers can return to. Find us in the Shopify App Store.

Animated gif showing a laptop displaying Stylaquin's Idea Board

Pinterest gives you endless boards of ideas but leaves you hanging when it’s time to buy. Stylaquin, on the other hand, lets you shop the look, right then and there! It’s like Pinterest’s cool, go-getter sister who doesn’t just show the outfit but puts it in your cart.

Pinterest: “Pin now, maybe buy later.”
Stylaquin: “Browse, dream, and buy—without the wait!”

Stylaquin’s Idea Board is the evolution of your Pinterest dreams—why wait when you can turn your vision into reality with just a click?

So, who’s winning this fashion battle? Both are fabulous, but Stylaquin is your ultimate sidekick for seamless, stylish shopping.